Good morning all…
First of all I would like to praise to our
God for the health that is given to us. And thanks for the chance to be
here to deliver my speech about “how to live your life without regrets”
Everyone has made poor choices or done something in their
past that could be possibly be labeled as ‘regrettable’. But, think about it.
The fact that you are now able to look back and realize that a mistake or
misstep occurred means you have learned a valuable lesson. Mistakes are
stepping stones to an evolving life. No need for you to sink into regret or
despair – keep your chin up
I will tell you how to live your life without regrets.
First, acknowledge a mistake has been made. It’s easy to
play the blame game, pointing fingers at someone else or circumstances as to
why you have stumbled or why your life is difficult. Taking personal ownership
that your past actions resulted in bringing about your current reality is the
first step to moving past regrets and moving toward a brighter future.
Second, make amends. If your past actions or words have
harmed another person, an apology may be tricky. Judge for yourself if an
apology will help matters or only drudge up old wounds better left alone. But,
definitely forgive yourself. Nobody is perfect. We all make mistakes. If you
feel badly about a past action you’ve taken that cannot be righted, forgive
yourself, and let it go.
Third, do overs. Sometimes feelings of regret arise not
from our past action, but from our non-actions. Have you ever regretted not
taking a vacation, staying stuck in a dead-end job, not attending college… or
whatever? It may be too late to reverse those decisions, but you still have
options. New opportunities are available around every corner if you just open your
heart and follow your dreams.
Fourth, be grateful. The most valuable lessons learned in
life often come from the mistakes we make. It may take a walk down a dark alley
to see clearly. Embrace your follies, feel gratitude for getting past the worst
episodes and eventually finding your way along a less-cluttered path.
Fifth,
be careful not to repeat the same mistake.
Opportunity will surface only after you take responsibility for faulty actions
taken and change your current and future behaviors accordingly.
Sixth,
be watchful of future knee-jerk reactions.
This is probably the toughest step, not reacting negatively to situations or
the people who tend to push your buttons. We don’t always have control over the
things life tosses in front of us, but we do control our reactions. Stay calm!
Seventh,
looking deeper inside. Re-evaluate the
direction your life is taking. Become aware of your future goals and desires.
Setting clear intentions will help clear the path so that your life progresses
with a freer heart and increased happiness. The best is yet to come! Believe
it.
There are tips for you, 1. Remember, nobody is perfect.
Including yourself ! 2. Forgiveness is golden. 3. Live for today. Yesterday was
then.
I think that’s all. Thank you for listening, it’s a
pleasure to speak and share with you.
