Saturday, 20 June 2015

example of speech

Good morning all…
First of all I would like to praise to our God for the health that is given to us. And thanks for the chance to be here to deliver my speech about “how to live your life without regrets”
Everyone has made poor choices or done something in their past that could be possibly be labeled as ‘regrettable’. But, think about it. The fact that you are now able to look back and realize that a mistake or misstep occurred means you have learned a valuable lesson. Mistakes are stepping stones to an evolving life. No need for you to sink into regret or despair – keep your chin up
I will tell you how to live your life without regrets.
First, acknowledge a mistake has been made. It’s easy to play the blame game, pointing fingers at someone else or circumstances as to why you have stumbled or why your life is difficult. Taking personal ownership that your past actions resulted in bringing about your current reality is the first step to moving past regrets and moving toward a brighter future.
Second, make amends. If your past actions or words have harmed another person, an apology may be tricky. Judge for yourself if an apology will help matters or only drudge up old wounds better left alone. But, definitely forgive yourself. Nobody is perfect. We all make mistakes. If you feel badly about a past action you’ve taken that cannot be righted, forgive yourself, and let it go.
Third, do overs. Sometimes feelings of regret arise not from our past action, but from our non-actions. Have you ever regretted not taking a vacation, staying stuck in a dead-end job, not attending college… or whatever? It may be too late to reverse those decisions, but you still have options. New opportunities are available around every corner if you just open your heart and follow your dreams.
Fourth, be grateful. The most valuable lessons learned in life often come from the mistakes we make. It may take a walk down a dark alley to see clearly. Embrace your follies, feel gratitude for getting past the worst episodes and eventually finding your way along a less-cluttered path.
Fifth, be careful not to repeat the same mistake. Opportunity will surface only after you take responsibility for faulty actions taken and change your current and future behaviors accordingly.
Sixth, be watchful of future knee-jerk reactions. This is probably the toughest step, not reacting negatively to situations or the people who tend to push your buttons. We don’t always have control over the things life tosses in front of us, but we do control our reactions. Stay calm!
Seventh, looking deeper inside. Re-evaluate the direction your life is taking. Become aware of your future goals and desires. Setting clear intentions will help clear the path so that your life progresses with a freer heart and increased happiness. The best is yet to come! Believe it.
There are tips for you, 1. Remember, nobody is perfect. Including yourself ! 2. Forgiveness is golden. 3. Live for today. Yesterday was then.
I think that’s all. Thank you for listening, it’s a pleasure to speak and share with you.


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